KidsOutAndAbout Weekly Newsletter
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Dear KidsOutAndAbout readers,
When I was about four years old, I turned to my mother and asked, “Mommy, do you know what I’m thinking?” She said no, that no one can know what’s going on in someone else’s head unless they say it out loud. I was instantly relieved. “Good!” I said, emphatically. This family story points to something we all figure out eventually: No one—not even those we love most—can
truly know us completely. That’s because our minds are crowded with thoughts, memories, emotions, and those little sparks of insight that are hard to pin down for ourselves, much less explain to someone else. So no matter what, we can only really share just a slice of who we are. Some people might say that being selective about what parts of ourselves we show to different people means we're being fake, but I don't. Full transparency isn't even possible, so the goal is
sincerity. As long as what we share is true to who we are, we’re being honest. Selective, but sincere. This is especially helpful to remember during the holidays, when we’re surrounded by lots of people, sometimes all at once. Some of them we love dearly. Others... less so. So when Aunt Viv is going on (again) about the zoning board, you don’t have to confess how bored you are. Just focus on what’s real—the part you truly mean—and say that. “So sorry that's getting in your
way, Aunt Viv. But I just have to say: Your pecan pie is amazing.” So this holiday season, try to tune your radar to see the good stuff. Say out loud what you honestly appreciate. And take comfort, as four-year-old Deb once did, that no one can read the rest of what’s going on in your head.
—Debra Ross,
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KidsOutAndAbout.com: Discover more. Do more. Connect more. If you like my publisher's column, you can easily scroll through past columns in the "Notes from Deb" section of our site. |
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Just a minute of your time could make a big impact. KidsOutAndAbout.com is conducting a short survey to better understand how families are navigating the fast-changing world of AI. We're asking all parents, grandparents, and caregivers-whether you're
tech-savvy or not-to weigh in.
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Private and alternative schools in the Inland Empire, CA area cater to every educational need and parent philosophy. This is KidsOutAndAbout's education highlight page, containing specially featured schools and also our master list of local schools. If your school is not on our list but should be, please email us at ross@kidsoutandabout.com.
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Private Schools in the Inland Empire: Try it before you buy it... and even before you visit! This is KidsOutAndAbout.com's video sneak peek into local private school experiences. If your school should have a video on this page, please send a link to the school's video on YouTube or Vimeo to ross@kidsoutandabout.com.
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Active, Retired, and Veteran U.S. Military Personnel may receive discounted admission to Knott's Berry Farm for themselves and up to 5 guests during Military Tribute Days. Tickets can be purchased online for $25* at Knotts.com or at the Knott’s Berry Farm ticket booths. Discounted admission is also available at a participating Military Ticket Office. Spouses and children are not eligible to purchase these tickets without the military member present.
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2025 holiday events in the Inland Empire, CA: Christmas concerts, lights, trees, nativities, and more. . . plus activities for Chanukah, and New Year's Eve.
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Join us this fall for a fun and festive scavenger hunt at the library! Explore the cozy corners, discover hidden treasures, and enjoy the beauty of autumn. Whether you’re a bookworm or just looking for an adventure, this hunt is perfect for all ages. Find the fall-themed surprises and win an exciting prize along the way. Bring your friends, family, and a sense of curiosity—let’s make this fall one to remember at the library!
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Join professional investigators from Dead Horse Creek Paranormal for a three to four-hour investigation at the March Field Air Museum. Guests will have the opportunity to operate technical ghost-hunting equipment and will be encouraged to participate fully in the investigation.
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Water Lantern Festival is an incredible experience where you, your friends, and your family will create a magical memory together. It can be a very emotional experience, writing down some of your hope and dreams, or a letter to a loved one, and then sending it out into the water. At Water Lantern Festival, we cherish these moments and will do our best to help you have an memorable experience that you'll never forget.
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Join us on November 22th from 1-5pm for an afternoon packed with fun for the whole family - enjoy arts & crafts, face painting, balloon twisting, live music, and exciting giveaways! Don’t miss out on this festive celebration!
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4-Miles of Open Streets Connecting Fairfax and Vermont - an epic event bringing fans together to bike, skate, or stroll along a car-free stretch of Melrose Ave in celebration of the cultural phenomenon’s fifth and final season.
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Join host Rebecca Sheir and composer Eric Shimelonis for a live recording of Circle Round: the family folktales podcast from Boston’s NPR station, WBUR! With help from a talented cast of local actors, Rebecca and Eric will record two brand-new podcast episodes, and you can be part of the magic!
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- Free mini photo session with Shoott! - Los Angeles - Shoott, Broadway, New York, NY, USA, Friday, November 21, 2025 to Sunday, November 23, 2025, See link for times
- Fall Scavenger Hunt - James S. Thalman Chino Hills Branch Library - James S. Thalman Chino Hills Branch
Library, 14020 City Center Drive, Chino Hills, CA 91709, Friday, November 21, 2025 to Sunday, November 23, 2025, 3:00 to 6:00 pm
- Doheny State Beach Community Beach Cleanups - Doheny State Beach, 33282 Golden Lantern, Dana Point, CA, Saturday, November 22, 2025, 9 am - 12
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- Netflix x CicLAvia—Melrose Ave: Stranger Things 5 One Last Ride - Netflix x CicLAvia, Melrose Avenue, Los Angeles, CA, Sunday, November 23, 2025, 9:00am - 3:00pm
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The Inland Empire offers a delightful selection of Christmas tree farms that bring the magic of the holiday season to life. Families can enjoy the cherished tradition of selecting the perfect tree while exploring picturesque landscapes and engaging in
festive activities.
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2025 holiday events in the Inland Empire, CA: Christmas concerts, lights, trees, nativities, and more. . . plus activities for Chanukah, and New Year's Eve. The activities we've listed here are
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Click here to discover Birthday party locations in the Inland Empire area. From Arcades to Ziplines our Big List will help you think outside the box and plan the party of your kids' dreams! KidsOutAndAbout has dozens of ideas!
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2025's best places to take kids in the Inland Empire? Each May-June, thousands of parents vote in KidsOutAndAbout's survey of the Top 20 Places to Take Kids. Was the winner an indoor play center, museum, farm, nature center, sports team? Click through to
find out!
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Here's to seizing opportunities to learn wherever they appear!
Debra Ross
Publisher, KidsOutAndAbout.com
Mom of Madison and Ella |
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